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Tuesday, April 5, 2011

How to handle bad friends

assamualaikum,

bila kita dahagakan maklumat..kita akan buku ke? oh tidak.. jauh sey na g library cari buku..so..ape lagi..google la..so sedang aku google na siapkan kerja aku yg aku rasa xkan siap sampai bila..terjumpa lak satu artikel ni..cam best..hehe..

How To Handle Bad Friend

1) Do not discuss the problem while you are still angry. Wait a while and let the tension out first because dealing with it right there and then will only worsen things.

2) Let the friend know what he/she did wrong and that you are not happy with him/her. Explain how they have hurt you and why you did not discuss it immediately they did it. They should appreciate your restraint.

3) Avoid letting your guards down with them ever again. Don't think that's the last time they will hurt you or try to. Never trust them again and don't ever let them forget why you are being careful around them. That will make them feel uncomfortable enough not to want to repeat it again.

4) Show that you have forgiven them by still being their friend. It will make them feel guilty and they will do their best to get back into your good books by being less beastly and more nicer and friendlier.

5) If what they did was cheat with your boyfriend or girlfriend, avoid letting them be alone with your partner and tell your partner why you wont want any closeness between the two of them.

cara yang sungguh gentleman.. as for me..buat bodoh sudah..lama-lama dia termalu sendiri r tu.. u don't want to be friend with me.. fine.. tapi i will never hold a grudge over you..coz you owe me nothing..as what i know..u still a friend..so lantak r ko na buat apa.. so sendiri punya perasaan..sendiri jaga sudah.. ;)..lebih2 kalo.. kaki hinggap kt muka..haha..

p/s : ini post general ek..bukan saja bikin kontroversi..kebetulan je..hehe..

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